Question...i need advice..about spouse etc.?

the story... we began dating...his family as not nice to me at all and sister in laws stole from me. Then I became pregnant unexpectly ...now i have a 7 month old beautiful baby boy...my fiances treats me good...but isn't romantic and i hardly get in the mood anymore..He doesn't make alot of money so we dont' go out alot. Basically I'm bored and want to be swept off my feet by someone( haven't met anyone) But I'm scared the the grass won't be greener on the other side. I'm content and my mind is at peace in this relationship. He is a good dad..but what do i do...things sorta are dull with us. One more thing whenever he says something to me I always wish he said it another way or said something else...ugh...What am i going thru someone help me understand.Question...i need advice..about spouse etc.?
I think that there is something to be said for the saying I always heard from my mother - Only boring people get bored.





Think about this for a moment - you're both in this together. He's probably just as bored and couped up as you.





He probably wants to sweep someone fabulous off of their feet and wonders why you are just a bump on a log around him. He wants and needs you to find him wonderful.





You fell in love and it was wonderful and passionate....and faded. Now is when you prove what you are made of. Not him - YOU.





You want a better relationship - be a better partner. Why should he have to sweep you off your feet - sweep him off his.


You want to do something exciting - do it. Invite him to join.





He didn't fall in love with a mommy - he fell in love with a girl. Find yourself again and be that wonderful person again. You'll love yourself, stop being bored and probably discover love with him all over again.Question...i need advice..about spouse etc.?
to much time together is as bad as not enough
It's totally normal to have the relationship enter a different phase once children come into the picture. You have a 7 month old and the first year or so its really hard to find the energy to ';be in the mood';. Just remember why you got together and realize no one is perfect. Be careful that you aren't too picky with how he does things and get a babysitter from time to time so you can date.
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Well as soon as you guys are able to get away from each other more things will get better. Being cooped up will make you crazy expecialy when you are cooped up with your spouse. Absance makes the heart grow fonder its not just a saying its the truth.!
You choose to have a baby with him, so deal with your situation. Getting swept off your feet went bye-bye when you got pregnant.
You just had a baby and that sometimes will take the attention away from you onto the baby. It's unfortunate that you became pregnant because now you have to think what's best for the you and the baby. If you guys get along and he treats you and the baby well, you should stick it out but I would not get married yet. It also sounds like you have alot of time on your hands and your so busy thinking about how he says things to you that your not really focusing on the fact that at least he is kind to you. You should try and take up a hobby or bring the baby to a local class. There are free classes out there that you can go out and do stuff with or without the baby. Maybe you guys need some more time on your own to re-connect with each other without the baby. Try that.
OK. You have a 7 month old baby. You want romance. You aren't feeling ';in the mood';. You are bored. You are content. You don't like how he says things.





There are some things that aren't going to change. If he wasn't romantic, he won't be. If he didn't make a lot of money, he won't - unless something dramatic changes.





Are you getting enough sleep? Are you taking care of yourself (baths, washing your hair, putting makeup on)? Are you talking to your friends? All these things can help with the ';mood';, and appreciating what you have.





You need to talk to your husband - conversationally, nor argumentatively. Chances are he knows something is wrong, but doesn't know what, and doesn't know how to help.





If you need help with the laundry, ask. If you need help with the cleaning, ask. If you want him to take the baby out for a few hours one day so you can have some mommy time, ASK!





As for the grass? Stick around. You say you are content and at peace - try hard to make this work - sounds like you've got great boys!
i always belive that if something is good why risk it. yes the relationship is dull, but part of being in a relatioship is helping each other. it fine that you want to be swept your feet, that is very understanable, but do you really want to risk a good dad just for one great night out. if you help him then thing will go your way, plus you dont need to be making a lot of money to have a great night. money cant buy love. when you go to a great restourant you not happy because you in this great place. you happy because you are there with him. so just help each other out.