I need some advice asap please this is very important !!! Military > spouse > in distress?

I am married to soldier, and we r divorcing, i moved over 1000 miles away back to where i lived orignally, he beat on me, cause me to miscarriage, lied to me, he went on a whole long story bout being in iraq, when he wasnt there!!!! he chickened out aka threatened to kill himself, he kept took my bank card and alot of other stuff and he was not like this before we got married!!!!!!! he has a girlfriend now i have a boyfriend and he wants to get me on adultry, he said they wont do anything to him, because he is a fort hood soldier, i dont kno is that true????I need some advice asap please this is very important !!! Military %26gt; spouse %26gt; in distress?
Really? I mean really? You are a civilian!!!!!!!! There is nothing he can do to you except file for divorce. I'm not quite sure how he lied about being in Iraq but whatever....bottom line divorce him and move on!!!!!!!!!I need some advice asap please this is very important !!! Military %26gt; spouse %26gt; in distress?
You dont have anything to worry about. He is subject to the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), you are not. He is not allowed to commit adultery, but you do not have the same rules to follow as he does. He could technically get in trouble for adultery, but probably wont since yall are separated. As far as a Ft. Hood soldier getting special treatment...BS. Just get your divorce started and dont worry about his empty threats.
Assuming you are not in the military, he cannot get you charged w/ adultery. It is not in federal/state law, but it is in the UCMJ (meaning it is only applicable to military members).





I urge you to seek help through the Army for your husband's suicidal ideations as well as the domestic abuse, assuming it is not already documented. The command ombudsman as well as the Family Advocacy Program can help servicemembers and their dependents.
He can't get you for anything. If you have proof of anything he has done to you, police reports and such-then I would totally ruin him..


My husband is here at Ft. Hood too and that makes no difference if he is being a bad husband to you.The army does NOT go for abuse in any sense..


Good luck
If it's that big of an issue, get his chain of command involved. This will ensure that you have some way to keep him off your back. Just remember though this course of action is sure to get him on his commander and first sergeant's radar.
The only way he can get you on adultry is if he has prove and it would really help your case if you have proof also. A lot of the times they only take this stuff if it's something that can be proved.