Sunday, January 10, 2010

I need advice on death of a spouse...?

My wife died 6 weeks ago after a long illness.I have considered looking


for someone else to date.I loved my wife very much,and she wanted me


to be happy.I am still grieving,but should I make that move and date


someone else?I need advice on death of a spouse...?
When you're ready to date, of course you should. There's no specific time at which that has to happen. If it's now, it's now. If it's later, that's good, too.





I'm very sorry for your loss.I need advice on death of a spouse...?
6 weeks is really not long enough. You are still grieving and very vulnerable at this time. Instead of looking for a new companion, why don't you spend more quality time with your family for a few months? Maybe you should talk to your family and see what their opinion is on the situation, so no one gets hurt and upset.
first my condolences to you. Yes she is gone and not coming back.Your vows did say until death do us apart,she death and you are free.My husband pass on 5 years ago totally unexpected it takes a little to get use to. But as time passed I started to get lonesome. After 1 year(but you are free to date anytime) I started dating again but I still miss him and think of him daily. Good luck.
Six weeks isn't really that long to go through all the emotions accompanied by death of a loved one. You really need to give yourself more time. It may prevent emotional distress for yourself later.





If I died I'd want my husband to find someone to love and make him happy.
Wait a while it might take a while for you to begin dating because you still might have that emptiness still inside you and by dating you might think that you can fill that emptyness up i could make things more painful...it going to take time but youll grt stronger each day ....


god bless


and im sorry for your loss
I'm very sorry for your loss.Grieving is different for each of us.I don't think anyone can answer the question.In order to help sort out your feelings do you think it may be helpful to join a bereavement support group? Your library,community center or local hospice will be able to help find one for you.
6 weeks is barely 2 months!!!





I couldn't imagine (and God forbid i ever have to) being with someone else.





How are even thinking about this? How are you even in the mood?





I'd be too devastated to even think about myself let alone someone else.





Good luck
6 weeks!! are you serious, i hope this is a joke question, i have food in my frig older than that. listen man, give it some respect, what are you a dog in heat? get off the porn sites and read a book, try church and wait a year. talk about no class.
i am sorry about your loss. Take a break for a year before dating, meet people and be social again. eventually you pain will subside a bit, but you will be in a better position to date again.
you might be ready but maybe for respect for her and her family you should wait at least 6 months..

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