You need to figure out a way to leave him and never go back. Find a women's shelter, find somebody in the nearest town/city who can maybe come out and get you. Once you're out, find a branch of the Legal Aid Society to help you get a divorce, child support payments and all that.
How do YOU have no money? Doesn't he have money? Unless you had a prenuptial agreement, his money is your money. When he's out or sleeping, take whatever money you can.
Please don't react to this with, ';But I can't, there's no way... I have no money...'; You CAN. Where there's a will, there's a way. Do you think YOU deserve to live like that? What about your baby?I need some advice... my spouse has mad mood swings %26amp; breaks stuff when his angry infront of our 18mth old?
Leave him. go get that divorce and make himpay child support. Get out now before he starts beating you and mistreating your baby. Thes situations only get worse not better.
Call some relative or girlfriend and see if you can stay with them a few days until you figure things out. contact your goverment and see what programs or benefits there might be available to help women and children in your situation and then drop the pride and go get help. anything you can arrange is going to be better than staying. This man is a danger to you and your baby, get out as fast as you can.
go stay with family. have someone come get you . file for divorce . he will have to pay alimony and child support. do not let yourself and your child stay in danger. :) at 18 months your child will start imitating his/her father. do you want your child to grow up acting just like him?
good luck
Go live with a friend or a family member or go to a woman's home for abused women, they can give you free housing. Call someone to give you a ride. Ask a neighbor. The police. Anyone. He is abusive and it will only get worse. Get out while you still can.
And you still have that child in the household? If you want to deal with it and accept it, go right ahead. Get the child out of there. Money shouldn't be a factor where violence is in the life of a child.
Start making a way for yourself and the baby to leave. If he's told you to leave, and he knows that you have nowhere to go, then he's playing mind games with you. You and your child deserve better.
if you have parents or friends or any one i would leave him with the baby because that is way to violent especially with a baby in the house
get a restraining order against the bum! take his *** to court get him to pay your rent plus child support. Then find yourself a real man! what a Jerk!
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